Married or single you were born an individual and will do an individual. There are literally something’s things you can only do for yourself. This is more than grooming, bust size, skin color, fashion, tax bracket, education level and it’s even more than family. It’s your medical history, your personality, goals and dreams. You are the only one with you 24/7/365. No one else is guaranteed to be with you for the rest of your life. This is why esteem is an inside job. What you think about, feel and believe matters because it drives your behavior. How you measure, evaluate and interpret what’s going on around you. The lens you see through. Culture influences perception. Likewise who you spend time around, the places you visit, or the things you do or don’t do with your body, money, and belongings. Everyone needs to take some time to become aware of what is going on internally so they can make the best decisions for themselves. In this matter, the world doesn’t get a vote. Only you advocate for you.